Petes Player Apologizes For Derogatory Comments Made On Tinder, Organization Asks Public To STOP Harassing The Woman

In the wake of the social media incident that took place at the beginning of the week, Greg Betzold—backed by the Peterborough Petes organization—is urging the public to cease all negative communication with involved parties.
 
In a just released statement, Betzold—who is suspended 15 games from the organization—said the following:

“On Monday morning, an excerpt of a conversation I had on Tinder was made public. My language and attitude in that conversation were unacceptable, insulting, and I exercised poor judgment in speaking to an individual in that manner. I am truly sorry to the woman I offended, her family, my own family, the Peterborough Petes, our fans, and the Ontario Hockey League for my insensitive remarks. I am going to use this as an opportunity to reflect on how my words can affect others, and to fully appreciate the standard expected of me as a member of the Peterborough Petes.
 
The language I used is a result of an attitude and behavioral issue that I have to change. The Peterborough Petes organization has already arranged for me to receive sensitivity training, and I thank them for working with me to address my mistake. I am fully committed to learning from this situation, becoming a positive member of the community, and a positive example of how to treat others.  
 
Furthermore, I have become aware that others have contacted the woman I insulted with inappropriate and threatening remarks. I am asking those people to stop this immediately. It was my mistake to use this language, and she deserves nothing but support in this situation.”
Jim Devlin

Jim Devlin

Jim Devlin, President of the Petes Board of Directors, adds “it has come to our attention that the young lady that was the target of Greg’s communication has and continues to receive threatening and harassing messages through a variety of platforms.

The Petes are pleading with the public to refrain from making negative or unsupportive comments toward the woman or any other involved parties.”
 

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Take A Look At New Videos From Peterborough Paranormal Investigations

Peterborough Paranormal, which started in town in 2005, has conducted many investigations of reported hauntings throughout Ontario, including here in town. They use technical equipment such as IR (night vision) cameras, audio equipment and a ghost box. Here are some new videos one of its investigators Mandy Rose has posted of recent investigations. Eerie stuff...

http://www.peterboroughparanormal.ca This is from an investigation Peterborough Paranormal conducted in February, 2011. We capture what appears to be a shadow figure peeking up from behind a sign then dipping back down. This appeared in the upstairs part of the house where the homeowners were reporting most of the activity.

http://www.peterboroughparanormal.ca This is from an investigation Peterborough Paranormal conducted in October, 2014. The night before we conducted the investigation we left our IR cameras running in the home all night. The homeowners were not staying the night in the home and when this was captured, the homeowners had left for the night.

http://www.peterboroughparanormal.ca This is an EVP we captured on an investigation we conducted in Peterborough, Ontario in March, 2014. Before screaming FAKE please read the description. The voices you hear are the team members in the next room talking with the home owners.

http://www.peterboroughparanormal.ca This is footage Peterborough Paranormal captured on an investigation in 2011. During set up a figure is seen passing by the mirror. There was only one other person upstairs. The team attempted to debunk this by getting members of the team to walk past the room but none of the members were seen in the mirror as they walked by.

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Where Is My Mom? Watch & Share A Daughter's Emotional Appeal To Find Her Missing Mom Lorraine Roach

MIssing Peteborough woman Lorraine Roach

MIssing Peteborough woman Lorraine Roach

Peterborough's Lorraine Roach went missing in May 2013, and her family has been desperately trying to find her ever since. It was a call to wish her mom a happy Mother’s Day last year that alerted her daughter Jennifer DeBernardi to the fact that her mother was missing, CBC reports. Lorraine Roach never returned her call.

Jennifer DeBernardi in YouTube video

Jennifer DeBernardi in YouTube video

Lorraine's minivan was found at the side of Lily Lake Rd., west of Peterborough—an area she would commonly use to go back and forth from the city to her home. But Lorraine herself has never been found, seemingly vanishing without a trace.

On October 14, 2014, Peterborough County OPP did a ground search of an area in Selwyn Township, prompted by a tip. They didn't find anything and won't comment on whether foul play is suspected but acknowledge that Roach's disappearance is now a criminal investigation.

Lorraine Roach

Lorraine Roach

There is a "Lorraine Roach Missing" page on Facebook and now CBC's The Fifth Estate has become involved, bringing national attention to this case.

CBC are also sharing an emotional plea video from Jennifer DeBernardi on the CBC News YouTube channel in the hopes someone will come forward with tips. If you have any information on this case, contact Peterborough County OPP at 705.742.0401. Watch and share Jennifer's video below on your social media channels...

Jennifer DeBernardi reached out to us during the 'Finding Emma' campaign. Her mother, Lorraine Roach, went missing in May 2013. It was a call to wish her mom a happy Mother's Day that alerted Debernardi to the fact that her mother was missing. Lorraine Roach never returned her call.

[via CBC News Fifth Estate blog]

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Whistle Stop Cafe Launches Social Media Twitter/Hashtag Wall To Inspire Ideas

Twitter wall

Twitter wall

Whistle Stop Cafe in downtown Peterborough has launched an innovative social media wall meant to become a hub for ideas pertaining to the city.

Local businesses and organizations can get their Twitter handle and/or hashtag on the wall/window of the cafe by contacting whistlestopcafe@bellnet.ca for details.

Owner Peggy Shaughnessy tells us the Twitter/hashtag wall is meant to "create dialogue", to inspire people to create conversations around their city pertaining to culture, politics, sports—whatever. Peterborough is known for having one of the more active communities on Twitter—Twitter Canada was here this summer—and this is another example of its power here.

Our @Ptbo_Canada handle is already on the wall so tweet us a picture when you see it in there, or when you're having conversations pertaining to the city and downtown.

Follow @WhistleStopLife on Twitter for more information, or email whistlestopcafe@bellnet.ca.

Peggy Shaughnessy unveils Twitter wall

Peggy Shaughnessy unveils Twitter wall

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Great Twitter Profile Pictures In Peterborough

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There is nothing like having a fun/introspective Twitter profile picture to reflect who you are, and your sense of adventure and personality. Whether it's a picture or illustration or some combination of above, your profile picture is a true representation of self.

In no particular order, here are some we love below from Peterborough folk. Please send along local ones you love who are bringing it with their profile pictures. Tweet us @Ptbo_Canada or email us.

OK, here we go...

 

Alana Callan @alanacallan

Matt G @oh_m_g

Steve Kearns @Mr_Kearnsy

Nick Ferrio @ferrioinstereo

Marianne Beacon @MarianneBeacon

Peter Struwing @robotpete

Pet Lost & Found PTBO @LostFoundPTBO

Wes Ryan @wjrguff

Dani Stover  @danigray

George St. @georgestptbo

Kate Wells  @aintlifeswells

Mike Judson @Mike_Judson

Carrie Copeland  @carrie_copeland

Jeffrey Macklin @jacksoncreek

Kemi Akapo  @kemi_akapo

Dan O'Toole @fs1otoole

Stuart Harrison @stoosnews

Rick Dolishny  @rdolishny

Jay Callaghan  @caltek79

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Watch: City Of Peterborough's "Vote Here!" YouTube Video

As part of their mission to engage electors using social media this election, a fun, educational video has been released by the City of Peterborough that provides an informal overview to the 2014 City of Peterborough Municipal Election (which is October 27th). It shows you all the ways you can vote—and how you know whether you're eligible to vote. Watch the video below, and for more info go here.

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City Of Peterborough Releasing App To Engage Electors

The City of Peterborough is using social media to engage electors in the 2014 Municipal Election. YouTube, Twitter and a City of Peterborough smartphone application will put election information at the fingertips of City electors, according to a city release.

“Municipal government has a direct impact on the day-to-day lives of residents. We want to make it as easy as possible for electors to be informed about the 2014 Municipal Election, and believe that adding social media to our traditional communication strategies will be effective,” says City Clerk John Kennedy in a release.

The City of Peterborough YouTube channel provides two informative videos—one that takes a light approach to general information on the 2014 Municipal Election, and one that focuses on accessible voting and assistive technologies available for voters who have various types of disabilities.

The City’s Twitter account @CityPtbo, which was launched in August 2013, provides timely information on City news, events and services. Twitter followers will continue to receive key election information and announcements.

Later this month, the City will launch an application for smartphones and tablets. The Official City of Peterborough App will feature up-to-date election information, maps/directions to Voting Locations, and a portal to Internet Vote between October 14th and October 27th, 2014.
 

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Here Is The Hootenanny On Hunter 2014 As Told Through Your Tweets

Yes, it rocked again. Community building. Twitter tells it best...

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Peterborough Illustrator Gets Crafty For Kraft Dinner Facebook Campaign

Local illustrator Jason Wilkins has scored a sweet gig for a Kraft Dinner social media campaign. As he tells us, "I got an email from Scott, a producer at Anomaly, the creative ad agency for Kraft Foods. His creative team thought my illustrative approach to caricature would be perfect for Kraft Dinner's upcoming Facebook campaign. Throughout the month of August, fans will post pictures of themselves enjoying Kraft Dinner in creative ways. I'll then draw caricature versions of the winning entries which will be posted to Kraft's Facebook page. Being a longtime fan of KD, it's just awesome to be teaming up with them to create something their nearly half a million Facebook followers will enjoy!"

Take a look at the Before & After launch image to campaign...

BEFORE..

Before image of a huge KD fan

Before image of a huge KD fan

AFTER...

Jason's caricature of person that will kick off the KD campaign

Jason's caricature of person that will kick off the KD campaign

Here are some more samples of Jason's illustrative caricature work...

Learn more about Jason on his Facebook page.

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How To Deal With Trolls Online In Your Community & Beyond

Beth Visser (photo credit: Rebekah Littlejohn)

Beth Visser (photo credit: Rebekah Littlejohn)

For the most part, social media is an incredibly positive, rewarding experience. Yet most everyone online—including us at @Ptbo_Canada—has experienced some form of trolling from time to time. That is, those who try to bait you with mean-spirited, manipulative, vindictive and disruptive tweets that far cross the line over "debate". We conducted an email interview with Beth A. Visser, Ph.D., a personality psychologist who teaches at Trent University's Oshawa campus, to learn more about troll/bullying behaviour and how to deal with them. Read our Q & A below...

PTBOCanada: Beth, is trolling/bullying more pervasive online? What is a good definition of an "online troll"?

Visser: Bullying is pervasive on- and offline. It’s more difficult to think of an offline equivalent to trolling. It would be like going to a party in disguise and making obnoxious and inflammatory comments, hoping that the party-goers would turn on each other and the gathering would be ruined. Internet communities give such a person far more opportunities to spread the chaos. There are lots of definitions out there, but basically, an online troll is someone who uses deceptive, disruptive, and inflammatory tactics to create unpleasantness and chaos in an online community.

PTBOCanada: Is there a significant difference between trolling/bullying or are they one in the same really?

Visser: People sometimes use the terms used interchangeably, but there is a difference— particularly in motivation. Trolls like causing havoc. These individuals will seek to create disruption in online communities, and some research has suggested that they will do so to alleviate boredom, get revenge on a community, seek attention, and gain pleasure. The damage that a troll causes often seems pretty pointless. Online bullying, on the other hand, tends to be about targeting and hurting a particular person or persons.  

PTBOCanada: OK, say you are being "trolled" online. What is the best thing to do in that case? Ignore them? Block them? Repond to them in any way?

Visser: The standard advice is “don’t feed the trolls”, and that’s a good course of action. Blocking them can work, with the troll simply moving on to an easier target—but of course, a motivated troll can always come back under a new name. Trolling isn’t fun when no one engages. (Note that the situation would be different if you are the targeted victim of cyberbullying/harassment. We’re starting to see more arrests in these cases.)

PTBOCanada: How does one distinguish between debate/negativity and when it crosses the line into "trolling"? What's the rule of thumb regarding knowing when to "disengage" and not reply to them on Twitter or block them altogether?

Visser: That’s an interesting question. From the perspective of the “troller” or debater, there is a motivational distinction. Trolls want to have fun at the expense of the rest of us, whereas the passionate debater may be highly invested in a particular point of view. If you know anything about the posting habits of the other person, you might look for whether they have a history of creating havoc everywhere they go and on a variety of topics (or conversely, no history at all because they constantly change identities), or whether they simply have a strong point of view on one particular topic. For a troll, the fun ends when you disengage. Even with a sincere debater, it’s reasonable to let the other person know that you’ve both made your points and you won’t be discussing the topic with them any further.

PTBOCanada: What personality trait(s) cause a person to troll? Are they generally like that "offline" as well? Is an alter-ego created for some reason online?

Visser: In my research, I investigate the so-called “Dark Triad” of personality—that is, psychopathy (callous, manipulative, irresponsible people who lack empathy), narcissism (grandiose sense of personal importance, entitlement) and Machiavellianism (cynical world view, willingness to use deception and manipulation to achieve one’s goals) in “normal” people. Recently, some researchers have made a compelling case that everyday sadism (i.e., sadistic personality traits that don’t warrant clinical attention or assessment) should be added to make a “Dark Tetrad.” Recent research out of the University of Manitoba has shown that Machiavellianism, psychopathy, and everyday sadism were related to enjoyment of trolling in their student and community participants. Sadistic personality traits were the best predictor, suggesting that people troll because they like it. The Dark Triad/Tetrad of personality is associated with social malevolence offline as well, so it doesn’t seem to be the case that our mild-mannered Dr. Jeckylls turn into Mr. Hydes once they have access to the internet and a little anonymity. Mr. Hyde may have a whole lot more opportunity to express his social malevolence online though.

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For more information on Beth Visser's research, check out her website Bethvisser.com. You can email Beth here or follow her on Twitter here.

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