How To Deal With Trolls Online In Your Community & Beyond

Beth Visser (photo credit: Rebekah Littlejohn)

Beth Visser (photo credit: Rebekah Littlejohn)

For the most part, social media is an incredibly positive, rewarding experience. Yet most everyone online—including us at @Ptbo_Canada—has experienced some form of trolling from time to time. That is, those who try to bait you with mean-spirited, manipulative, vindictive and disruptive tweets that far cross the line over "debate". We conducted an email interview with Beth A. Visser, Ph.D., a personality psychologist who teaches at Trent University's Oshawa campus, to learn more about troll/bullying behaviour and how to deal with them. Read our Q & A below...

PTBOCanada: Beth, is trolling/bullying more pervasive online? What is a good definition of an "online troll"?

Visser: Bullying is pervasive on- and offline. It’s more difficult to think of an offline equivalent to trolling. It would be like going to a party in disguise and making obnoxious and inflammatory comments, hoping that the party-goers would turn on each other and the gathering would be ruined. Internet communities give such a person far more opportunities to spread the chaos. There are lots of definitions out there, but basically, an online troll is someone who uses deceptive, disruptive, and inflammatory tactics to create unpleasantness and chaos in an online community.

PTBOCanada: Is there a significant difference between trolling/bullying or are they one in the same really?

Visser: People sometimes use the terms used interchangeably, but there is a difference— particularly in motivation. Trolls like causing havoc. These individuals will seek to create disruption in online communities, and some research has suggested that they will do so to alleviate boredom, get revenge on a community, seek attention, and gain pleasure. The damage that a troll causes often seems pretty pointless. Online bullying, on the other hand, tends to be about targeting and hurting a particular person or persons.  

PTBOCanada: OK, say you are being "trolled" online. What is the best thing to do in that case? Ignore them? Block them? Repond to them in any way?

Visser: The standard advice is “don’t feed the trolls”, and that’s a good course of action. Blocking them can work, with the troll simply moving on to an easier target—but of course, a motivated troll can always come back under a new name. Trolling isn’t fun when no one engages. (Note that the situation would be different if you are the targeted victim of cyberbullying/harassment. We’re starting to see more arrests in these cases.)

PTBOCanada: How does one distinguish between debate/negativity and when it crosses the line into "trolling"? What's the rule of thumb regarding knowing when to "disengage" and not reply to them on Twitter or block them altogether?

Visser: That’s an interesting question. From the perspective of the “troller” or debater, there is a motivational distinction. Trolls want to have fun at the expense of the rest of us, whereas the passionate debater may be highly invested in a particular point of view. If you know anything about the posting habits of the other person, you might look for whether they have a history of creating havoc everywhere they go and on a variety of topics (or conversely, no history at all because they constantly change identities), or whether they simply have a strong point of view on one particular topic. For a troll, the fun ends when you disengage. Even with a sincere debater, it’s reasonable to let the other person know that you’ve both made your points and you won’t be discussing the topic with them any further.

PTBOCanada: What personality trait(s) cause a person to troll? Are they generally like that "offline" as well? Is an alter-ego created for some reason online?

Visser: In my research, I investigate the so-called “Dark Triad” of personality—that is, psychopathy (callous, manipulative, irresponsible people who lack empathy), narcissism (grandiose sense of personal importance, entitlement) and Machiavellianism (cynical world view, willingness to use deception and manipulation to achieve one’s goals) in “normal” people. Recently, some researchers have made a compelling case that everyday sadism (i.e., sadistic personality traits that don’t warrant clinical attention or assessment) should be added to make a “Dark Tetrad.” Recent research out of the University of Manitoba has shown that Machiavellianism, psychopathy, and everyday sadism were related to enjoyment of trolling in their student and community participants. Sadistic personality traits were the best predictor, suggesting that people troll because they like it. The Dark Triad/Tetrad of personality is associated with social malevolence offline as well, so it doesn’t seem to be the case that our mild-mannered Dr. Jeckylls turn into Mr. Hydes once they have access to the internet and a little anonymity. Mr. Hyde may have a whole lot more opportunity to express his social malevolence online though.

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For more information on Beth Visser's research, check out her website Bethvisser.com. You can email Beth here or follow her on Twitter here.

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Here Is The ISS Flying Over Peterborough

Yep, amazing local photographer Jay Callaghan came through again. He captured this photo of the International Space Station flying above Peterborough last night...

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In The Eye Of The 80-Foot Superslide At Riverview Park & Zoo

What a great pic from Laura Copeland, one of the coolest we've seen of the superslide at zoo.

Update via our Facebook page, here's one Chris Nickle took of his son in 2012...

Combining the photos, eyes of a superslide...


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Beauty Picture Of Jango The Star Wars Kitten Checking Out A Bird

As Jango's owner Ray Henderson tells us about capturing this image of one of his Stars Wars kittens, "I was working on my laptop and Jango saw a bird, it's a beautiful pic." Or Jango's just realizing there is a whole other galaxy out there.

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Go Get Your "I'd Rather Be In Peterborough" T-Shirt Along The Otonabee

These beauty tees are available at Pedal 'N' Paddle below Silver Bean Café at Millennium Park. Buy one, and tweet us pictures of you rocking one. Community pride.

Twitter is talking them up...

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Here Is Your Chance To Win PTBOCanada VIP Tickets To Royal Wood

PTBOCanada File Photo (Evan Holt)

PTBOCanada File Photo (Evan Holt)

Lakefield's Royal Wood, multiple Juno-nominated singer and songwriter, is playing Peterborough Musicfest Saturday, August 23rd at 8 p.m. at Del Crary park.

We're giving away 4 VIP tickets for you to sit in our PTBOCanada.com seats (we're a proud sponsor of Musicfest) to see him. For the chance to win, all you have to do is "Like" us on our Facebook page and tell us there why you'd love to see him (if you already are a fan of our page, you already have a chance to win!). We'll be picking a winner from our PTBOCanada Facebook page the week of August 11th so enter now!

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Royal Wood's 1st single FOREVER AND EVER from his upcoming release THE BURNING BRIGHT on MapleRecordings. Due in stores March 18th 2014 The single version. Produced in Co-operation with MuchFACT, A Foundation To Assist Canadian Talent, Supported by Much and M3, divisions of Bell Media Inc. Visit: http://www.royalwood.ca

Peterborough's Art For Awareness Hosting Auditions For The Musical Rent

Peterborough's Art for Awareness is holding open auditions for the musical Rent, to be produced at Showplace Performance Centre in Peterborough, on February 20th to 28th, 2015. Directed by Geoff Bemrose and Sarah Tye, Rent tells the story of a group of struggling artists living in the Lower East Village of New York City under the shadow of HIV/AIDS. Its landmark 12 year run on Broadway and multiple awards (not to mention feature film adaptation) have made Rent one of the most beloved and recognizable musicals of the past 20 years. Auditions will be held at Revolutions Dance Studio (159 King Street in Peterborough) on the following dates:

  • September 7th at 6-10pm
  • September 9th at 6-10pm
  • September 11th at 6-10pm

Learn more here about the audition process, and preparation involved.

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PTBOCanada Featured Post: Introducing Fox Law's Ross Pryde

Ross Pryde

Ross Pryde

To say that 2014 has been a busy year for Fox Law in Peterborough would be an understatement. The firm was established more than 40 years ago by Bill Fox, who still practices as much as ever. Recently, it absorbed the practice of a newly retired local lawyer and it has brought in two new lawyers: Nicole Truman and Ross Pryde.

Ross Pryde, who is moving to Peterborough in August, was born and raised in Aylmer, Ont. He grew up the son of a GM dealership owner, learning the ins and outs of a small business and the importance of customer service. He received his Honours Business Administration degree from the prestigious Richard Ivey School of Business. After his undergrad studies, he moved to Toronto and worked in various capacities for a few of the city’s professional sports franchises, including the Toronto Maple Leafs.

When the 2004 NHL lockout was on the horizon, he saw the writing on the wall and headed for law school in Ottawa. After law school, he served his articling term and practiced as a lawyer in Port Perry.

The move to Peterborough from the community of Columbus, Ont., where he is currently commuting from, will be a great chance for Ross to settle down. Come August, he will be a home owner in our great city, and in September will be marrying his fiancée Jane. The choice to come to Peterborough to practice was made easier by the size of our community, diverse people, and an overall feeling of it being just right.

Ross specializes in quite a few different areas of law, including:

Business Law – focusing on incorporations, succession planning, and family trust
Estate Planning – advising clients regarding Wills and Powers of Attorney
Estate Administration – working with Trustees in dealing with estates
Real Estate – the buying and selling of residential and commercial properties along with planning applications.

For more than 40 years, Bill Fox has specialized in Business Law, which has made the transition for Ross an easier one coming from the same background. Bill acts for more than 500 companies in and around Peterborough, and is known for his integrity and humility, as well as being a people person. Ross’s goal is to transition smoothly into the firm and take on the same characteristics to grow his practice and provide the best possible legal help to his clients.

Note: This is the first of a 3-part series on Fox Law in Peterborough.

For more information on Ross Pryde and Fox Law, they can be reached at:

Website: Fox-law.ca
Email: ross@fox-law.ca
LinkedIn: RdPryde
Phone: 705.743.2300
Fax: 705.743.9932
 

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New Exhibit "Lawless Landscapes" Inspired By Instagram Pics To Be Shown In Peterborough This August

Peterborough's Carol Lawless is known for taking beautiful landscape and sky images on Instagram. As she explains to us, "In the fall of 2012, I started driving back and forth to Bobcaygeon for my job as editor of an independent newspaper, The Promoter. I began taking photos of the skies, fields and barns along the Pigeon Lake Road. It was fun for me and I always looked forward to my drive to Bobcaygeon early in the morning and when I would return home usually just before sunset. Pretty soon, I started recording the skies and landscapes of the cities and rural areas I visited when I became a features editor for kawarthaNOW and people looked forward to seeing where i was going, and who I was visiting...

"My friends Nancy Carter, Sylvia Davies and Andrew Wilton believe my photos are a record of Peterborough and the surrounding area," Lawless says, "so they decided to mount and frame the photos for my 50th birthday present." They called it Lawless Landscapes, and organized an exhibit to be shown at Chasing the Cheese in downtown Peterborough in August.

"What's interesting about this exhibit is that I have always taken the photos because they are as much as expression of what I am feeling as they are a record of the landscapes in the county and city of Peterborough," says Lawless.

Lawless Landscapes will be displayed at Chasing the Cheese in downtown Peterborough at 372 Water Street starting August 1 and running through August 24th.

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Community Magic: Here Are Before & After Pictures Of Peterborough Wednesday Market

In a matter of hours, the Louis St. Parking Lot is transformed by the Peterborough Downtown Farmers' Market into this beehive of community activity each week...

THE BEFORE

photo via Gillian Bishop

photo via Gillian Bishop

THE AFTER

photo via Gillian Bishop

photo via Gillian Bishop

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